DEAR DEIDRE: I AM married to a great guy but we do not have sex even though we love one another.
It’s a problem now we want to start a family.
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I am 27, he’s 31.
We got married last year but our sex life has never really got going.
I think he’s afraid because it’s been so long.
We do not share a bed as he is a light sleeper and says I breathe heavily.
We want to start a family but do not know how to turn this situation around.
I try not to mind but I go out once in a blue moon with friends and get very drunk trying to drown my sorrows.
DEIDRE SAYS: You are living in limbo and must insist your husband faces up to whatever is blocking his sex drive.
He’s covering some serious worry.
Talk to a sex and relationships therapist – together and separately.
See my e-leaflet How Sex Therapy Helps for details of contacts.
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